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As a little girl, as I stepped into my teens, I never realized that I carried a divine blessing within me. Naïve and innocent, dressed in floral patterned dresses, I answered every question promptly. While predicting for all who had unblemished faith in me became a way of life, little did I know that like a typical sixteen year old, I could no longer be oblivious to the delicately overpowering yet the beautiful feeling of love.
It was magical yet amazingly serene. The feeling was so strong for my soul mate that my heart and mind painted an amazing picture of my imaginative invisible beloved my heart yearned to meet one day. Writing came naturally to me, probably the most pertinent mode for me to pen down these effervescent overflowing thoughts of him that filled my senses so intensely. I realized that my love for him had turned into something way stronger, purer and more meaningful – a soulful prayer, an ‘Ibaadat’.

A Prayer (7th July 1981)
Your very existence seems to be way beyond the realms of my understanding,
And far far away from reality.
While I try to look for the light, the source of life that I emanated from,
I feel the strong bond that your being shares with my body and soul,
Within which I search for my infinite desire to love
Which ends at the alter of your pure love.
It is this serene love of yours that leads my learned mind to a place where soulful oasis exist.
It is in these oases that I see you and only your reflection,
And Today, my feelings tell me that you are my dawn, you are my twilight, my God and even my prayer !

As I grew up I started realizing and understanding better what I had penned down…..love is a many splendid thing my dear friends. Love is a celebration that goes way beyond a lifetime. For all you warm hearts out there that beat and thrive on love, who have imagined and waited for their soul mates, let me tell you that there is one out there for each one of you. Just as you seek your love so does your soul mate.

Today, as the world celebrates the day of love on Saint Valentines Day, my endeavor would be a soulful prayer for each one of you souls to meet their mate.
Wishing you all a day and life filled with pure love and serenity.

Love
Nirmala
– Inspiring Serenity

Lord Brahma, the god who created knowledge and then beautiful universe, who has made human body made up of so many colors like your nerve is green, blood is red, eyes has different shades and human skin color ranges in variety from the darkest brown to the lightest hues. Even five elements on earth “Agni”, “Jal”, “Sthal”, “Vayu”, “Akash” has made up of different colors.

As an individual grow older, with maturity comes a greater liking for hues of shorter wave length (blue, green, purple) than for hues of longer wave length (red, orange, and yellow). Human brain able to extricate over two hundred shades of white, able to see the same color no matter the light source, saying color is essential to our perception is no slight exaggeration.

Holi is the festival of colors or the festival of sharing love. The festival signifies the victory of good over evil, the arrival of spring, end of winter, and for many a festive day to meet others, play and laugh, forget and forgive, and repair broken relationships, and is also celebrated as a thanksgiving for a good harvest. Thus, we are sharing importance of 7 colors which controls this beautiful universe and its impression.

Purple

Purple/Violet is the harmonic marriage between red and blue. It embodies the balance of red’s stimulation and blue’s calm. It has the shortest wavelength. Purple has association with time and space cosmos; this makes purple a color that signifies meditation as well as spirituality.

Purple is the color of the Crown Chakra, also known as Sahasrara, is located at the top of the head. It is linked with the crown of the head i.e.; the nervous system and the brain. It is the representative of pure thoughts. The Crown Chakra connects one with the infinite consciousness. Opening this chakra will tap into a deep spiritual understanding.

Purple represents planet Jupiter. February is the month associated with the color purple and the birthstone for those born in February is amethyst. Purple is considered a cool color in landscape design. Its appearance has a calming effect. For example, planting lavender in your garden can be stress reducing and soothing.

If you like purple/violet color, then it says a lot about your personality. You are gentle and free spirited, sensitive and compassionate, understanding and supportive, thinking of others before yourself. You are the person others come to for help- being needed motivates you but sometimes people take advantage of you.

Being a personality with color purple, you have a peaceful and tranquil quality and a quiet dignity about you. People are drawn to your charismatic and alluring energy. You are intuitive and quite psychic or at least interested in spiritual growth or the occult. You seek spiritual fulfillment. You look for the meaning of life. You are a visionary, with high ambitions, dreams and desires. You also signify mysticism, royalty, creativity and wealth.

Yellow is one of the primary color. The wavelength of yellow color is relatively long and stimulating. In this case, the stimulus is emotional; therefore yellow is the strongest color, psychologically. It is the color of happiness and optimism, warmth and intensity.

Yellow is the color of the Solar Plexus Chakra, also known as Manipura Chakra. The color golden yellow indicates aura. This chakra is located in the stomach area. It is linked to the stomach, liver, skin, large intestine, muscular system, and solar plexus area. This chakra represents vitality and will. Manipura Chakra, when open acts to empower a person and helps them find their personal strength. It gives person a strong will to turn dreams and goals into reality.

The longest wavelength of light is red, therefore it’s a very dominating color. It’s a powerful and emotion evoking color. It signifies both love and war. Red is associated with strong stimulating emotions like passion, love, anger, aggression, strength, life and blood.

Red is the color for the Base or Root Chakra also known as Muladhara Chakra. This chakra is located at the base of the spine and allow us to be grounded and connect to the universal energies. This chakra is associated with your legs,feet, bones, large intestine,and adrenal glands. Base Chakra is the closest to the ground. It controls your ‘fight or flight’ response.

In the past few months, the intuitive healer and counselor Nirmala Sewani successfully hosted a series of unique group sessions to unite the local community in Gurgaon under a common spiritual cause which placed self-awareness, personal transformation and healing and at the forefront of the agenda. Group Counsellings and Meditation Sessions are a powerful catalyst for personal and spiritual growth. Under the guidance of a experienced Spiritual Therapist, the individuals present in the group will help themselves and one another. It offers participants an effective, efficient and economical option for healing relational and emotional issues. Each one of these three sessions had its own theme and subject of focus.

The first workshop centered around Meditation with Colour Therapy and was held on Sunday, August 7th at the luxurious Pllazio Hotel, Sector 29, Gurgaon. Colour therapy is a proven method used by the alternative health industry to treat physical ailments and balance emotional and psychological well-being. Colour is simply light that has been split into different wavelengths that vibrate at different speeds and frequencies. Each of these colours have unique effects on your emotions, health and physiology. Sunlight is a blend of 7 different colours- red, orange, yellow, green, blue and violet. Each trigger a specific hormonal response in the human body, which consequently has associating emotional and psychological effects Guests gained an in-depth knowledge on an ancient healing technique that has been used by several world cultures, completely safe and non-invasive way to boost the natural healing processes and lead yourself to the harmony of mind, body and spirit. The workshop had been split into an intensive meditation session and a individual counsellings opportunity which lead attendees to walk away feeling empowered.

The Prosperity Enhancement Meditation & Counsellings session with the expert Yagna Acharya Shri Nirmala Sewani took place on 4th September, 11am onwards at the Optus Sarovar Premiere. This intensive group session explored the group’s psychological connection to lack, scarcity and fear and helped them break free of unconscious negative patterns and limiting thoughts The goal of this session was to invite abundance, wealth and prosperity into one’s general mindset and lifestyle. Participants enjoyed an insightful round of questions and answers with Shri Nirmala, after which everyone joined in for a guided meditation. Guests could also engage with Shri Nirmala for a Personal Consultation after the live training program.

The core focus of this session was to reprogram the heart and crown chakra. Shri Nirmala taught the audience that in order to attract an infinite flow of abundance, health, wealth and prosperity into your life , the Heart/Anahata Chakra and Crown/Agya Chakra must be first free of blockages, functioning in a clear and open condition. The 4th, Heart or Anahata is our energy center from which love, joy, happiness and compassion radiates from. It also allows where sorrow, lack, greed stems from.The workshop and consultation sessions helped participants to pinpoint their blockages in this particular energy center so that they could eventually be healed. Everyone felt a supportive environment to open themselves to communicate about their fears and self-understanding.. Shri Nirmala provided attendants of the workshop with spiritual tools to enhance their growth, such as meditation, visualization, breath work, acceptance, forgiveness, prayer, astrology, stones, aura cleansing and chakra balancing.

Her most recent event was conducted over the weekend of 15th October 2016 in Jaipur. The night was special as it marked the arrival of “Sharad Purnima,” an auspicious harvest festival signalling the end of the Monsoon season in India. It is believed that the radiance of the moon on this night has an especially tranquilizing and illuminating effect on the mind. Shri Nirmala hosted a Collective Meditation that celebrated this lunar occasion by bringing together nearly 200 individuals and uniting them with the spirit of mantras that have the power to harmonise the chakras. The soothing effects of the mass meditation were unmistakeable as the participating faces glowed with peace and tranquility under the gentle guidance of the spiritual counselor and the light of the moon.

These workshops are only the beginning of the series Shri Nirmala wishes the conduct over the coming months. She feels great joy in bringing spiritual community together in a world where this aspect of togetherness is needed the most. Stay connected to this page in order to tune into the exciting life-changing events that are to unfold in the following months and feel free to contact Shri Nirmala personally to create a direct connection with her as your heart wishes.

According to Vastu Shastra What You Must Avoid in kitchen:

1. Kitchen should not be under or above the pooja room.
2. A kitchen should not be directly under or above the toilets.
3. Avoid having a kitchen directly under or above the bedroom.
4. Do not place cooking gas burner/stove directly in front kitchen’s entrance door.
5. A kitchen in North-East may causes mental tension among family members.
6. Kitchen in South-West may leads to clashes among family members.
7. A kitchen in North-West direction is acceptable but it may leads to increase in monetary expenditures in the house
8. Most risky position of the kitchen is the one placed in North direction; as North is Lord Kubera’s (the God of Wealth) direction, having a kitchen in North will increase the expenditure of family beyond expectations and control.
9. Never face west while cooking as this leads to severe health problems to the cook(the one who is cooking for the family).
10. If while cooking the cook faces south direction then the family has to face monetary losses/expenditures.
11. Avoid using black color for kitchen walls and floorings etc tiles or marble.
12. Avoid keeping a refrigerator in North-East direction.

What You Must Do:

1. Position of the kitchen should be in center point to southeast direction
2. Water utensils should be in North Direction
3. Gas stove should be in the southeast direction
4. Electronic items such as microwave, toaster, mixer should be in west direction
5. If the gas stove cannot be placed in southeast direction and is placed in north or west then there should be a long/full-length mirror of the same height as of cook(person who is preparing food in your house), to compensate the side effects.
6. Windows should be in the north east direction so that there should be cross ventilation
7. Smoke should move out of the kitchen from the south west direction.
8. To avoid ill health of the person cooking food one should follow the following things
   1. Never take footwears inside the kitchen, if taking wear clean footwear.
   2. Never prepare food in bad moods, as if affects the health of a person who is having that food and spread negativity in a person’s mind
9. If Sinks are not in the right direction then you can put plants on the entrance of kitchen like : curry leaves, Neem or bonsai.
10. You can place Tulsi Plant in kitchen for good health, wealth and prosperity
11. The slope of the following water inside the kitchen should be in west direction
12. To increase productivity inside the kitchen one should plant following plants inside the kitchen
    1. Monesary
    2. Amla
    3. Gudhal
13. If you are your food item for the long run then you should store them in east direction
14. Clean kitchen, kitchen platform, and utensils daily at night before sleeping.

Just follow all above mentioned best vastu Vigyan tips for kitchen and you can – and definitely will – feel a big and positive change in your life and atmosphere in your house or you can consult best Vastu Vigyan Specialist Ms Nirmala Sewani for more vastu Vigyan tips.

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Feng Shui talks about two types of energies – positive and negative. However, our Vedic Vastu Shastra talks about three types of energies, they are:-

·        ‘Satvik’: The extreme positive form of energy, which is present due to excessive prayers, worship, and saadhna.
·        ‘Tamasik’: The extreme negative form of energy which is related to the punish and reward system and gives you the strength to protect yourself and is not just consumption of liquor, gambling, fights, etc.
·        ‘Rajasik’:  The balanced combination of Satvik and Tamasik which is extremely necessary for making a good living.

Nirmala Sewani is a Vastu Vigyan Specialist, Collective meditation expert, Tarot Card Reader and face, Posture Reading and a Top Astrologer in Gurgaon, NCR, and Jaipur. If you need any of the services or for any inquiry than Contact us today: + 91 9313007138

A place should have a balance of all these forms of energies. A family cannot survive only on Satvagun with all the family members only praying and performing puja-paath and nothing else. Similarly, a family where everyone is involved in drinking, gambling and fighting will not be able to make its living, though they are strong enough to protect themselves from external attacks like theft and physical assault. Rajagun is required to earn the ‘Shree’, i.e. the materials required to have a good living.

The energies are balanced from the center of the house, called the ‘Brahm Sthaan’ which should always be lit to ensure enlightenment.

A joint family is a perfect example of balanced energy where the elders of the family devote their maximum time in prayers and meditation, while the younger ones have the prime responsibility to work and earn a decent living.

In today’s nuclear families, this balance is disturbed, since the Satvagun part of the energy is generally missing and the Tamagun is present predominantly. To improve the Satvagun, a place of worship is required that balances the energies.

If a house has a lot of Satvagun, then there might be husband-wife conflicts, which may be streamlined by using a crystal to provide the Rajagun. Apart from this, green plants, kitchen, and the living room depict the Rajagun, while a basement depicts the Tamagun. For children to study, Satvagun is needed, but to make their careers, Rajagun is required.

The four Ashrams were based on the three forms of energy:
1.      Brahmacharya: Satvagun
2.      Grihastha          : Rajagun + Tamagun
3.      Vanaprastha    : Satvagun + Tamagun
4.      Sanyasa              : Satvagun

Even the Varna System of our society was in line with these forms of energy:
1.      Brahmin  :  Satvagun
2.      Kshatriya: Tamagun with Rajagun qualities also
3.      Vaishya  : Rajagun with Tamagun qualities also
4.      Shudra    : Tamagun

You don’t have to believe in luck, but what if you really can do a few things to draw more positive energy into your home.

With the ongoing Swacch Bharat Abhiyan initiated by Hon’ble Prime Minister Shri Narendra Modi Ji, it becomes essential for us to start with cleaning our houses. Decluttering helps to remove blockages from our life that stop the flow of energy to us and everything we enjoy. Physical clutter can actually bring mental and emotional clutter. It is not just the everyday garbage that we throw but holding onto things that are no more used or are defective or are rarely used should be done away with. They not just take space but also obstruct the energy flow.

Defective electronic gadgets or clothes that do not fit us anymore should be discarded or given to someone who can make use of them. Throw, recycle, donate or sell what is not required anymore. Women are commonly fond of collecting cosmetics. Most of the time many cosmetic items like perfumes expire. We should avoid unnecessarily accumulating things because as it is expired stuff cannot be used so buy things as and when required. We should not keep things out of gulit or obligation. We keep accumulating things that we do not use because they are gigted by our loved ones. Don’t be afraid to let go.

The home décor that we do for our houses define our personality. A small house or small rooms decorated with artificial flowers, which might accumulate dust or may make the room look overcrowded, should be avoided. Be a minimalist, keeping minimum possible decorative pieces that do not obstruct our way and also be soothing to our eyes.

Even paintings can have a positive or negative effect on the vaastu of a place. A south facing house, getting lot of sunshine can get a cooling effect by placing a painting with greenery or water bodies. Even having a fish aquarium gives the same cooling effect. The paintings may not be with bulky frames but can also be in the form of wall posters in case the rooms are small.

A broken glass should be removed immediately from the house not because of ill luck but because it may hurt someone. Similarly, cobwebs give a creepy and unkept look to the house, hence they should be removed immediately. They also are indicative to the complexities in life.

At times there are idols of Gods and Goddesses that get broken in the house. Immersing these broken idols in water bodies or putting them under Peepal or other trees is the worst possible way of doing awy with them. This way we are polluting our water bodies and accumulating garbage not just for ourselves but also for our country. Even keeping these broken idols in the temple premises does not make sense as the idols there are meant for worship and we do not worship a broken idol, so it is best to destroy them completely so that they can be recycled. We should look at the practical and scientific aspects of things rather than just hanging on to old beliefs.

Immersion of idols was also performed in places where there was flowing water, like Ganpati Visarjan was done in Maharastra, Durga visarjan in Calcutta, these idols get completely dissolved with flowing water in the sea or the rivers.  If we blindly follow these traditions in places like rajasthan, where there is already a scarcity of water, then it will certainly be problematic. Rajasthan has its own tradition of festivals like haryali teez, and gangaur etc which we should follow with great fervor.

In short , along with keeping our beliefs intact, we should keep things that we can maintain easily and makes our house peaceful, fresh and positive.

We are always curious to know about our marriage, when, where and to whom? Our Astrology plays a very important role in our life and moreover when its about your life partner than everyone should consult the astrologer for it as this is going to decide your life. With the help of astrology we can get hints/idea/guidelines about when will we get married, Marriage distance and direction? We will discuss here how to know about Direction of Spouse in astrology.

According to Hindu astrology planet positions totally affect the marriage. According to Vedic and Indian astrology “men are from mars and woman’s are from Venus”. For any kind of information regarding Marriage and spouse we have to check 7th house, Planets posited in 7th house and the significator of Marriage Venus. Determine the strongest among the 7th lord, Planets placed in 7th house and Venus. The direction indicated by the strongest planet can be the direction of Spouse in astrology. Check the Sign which is rising in 7th house and the direction indicated by this Sign.

When people approach us for Marriage Consultation Nirmala Sewani use her best knowledge and technique to come to an conclusion about the Direction of Spouse. It takes only few minutes by her to Analyze Marriage only.

Nirmala Sewani is one of the top astrologer and meditation expert in Gurgaon, NCR widely known for her strong intuitive skills and her expertise in 67 different kinds of Yagnas or Havans. She can quickly predict an upcoming situation in anyone’s life through voice decoding backed with expert knowledge in palmistry. Recently in 10th August she organized a meditation session for the Miss Rajasthan 2018 contestants to bless them while in previous year too we remember, she graced the occasion of Mrs. India NCR 2017 by lamp lighting. She has been voted among the 100 distinguished personalities of Rajasthan at the Coffee table Book launch in Hilton hotel of Jaipur. She has been featured in the book with 99 talented personalities for their social contribution to Rajasthan state and India. She is Collective Meditation Expert and has also conducted a collective meditation session along with live discussion and interaction at the Gyanam Event on 8th and 9th of September 2018, which was held at Hotel Casa Bela in Jaipur. It was a two days live event attained by many famous astrologers and Vaastu experts. Another recent meditation session by Nirmala Sewani was on 13th September at Hotel Hayat in Gurugram. The event was organized by Arya Group of Colleges and managed by Yogesh Mishra and Nimisha Mishra. The September month till now has been highly motivating for the Japurites and Gurugram people through the live interactive sessions with Nirmala Sewani while we are hoping for more such events in the upcoming months.